It’s not 70/30, not 60/40, not even 50/50. A true relationship is 100% them and 100% you.
You cannot give half of yourself and expect to get all of your partner. It just doesn’t work that way.
If both of you are not fully invested in the relationship, it is a dying relationship.
Love can’t flourish if it isn’t given the effort it requires to grow.
Don’t play games to get more out of your relationship.
If you can’t be true to yourself and get results then things need to change.
Healthy relationships require effort and if you and your partner aren’t 100% committed to the others’ happiness, then you’re wasting each other’s happiness.
“100% them and 100% you”